Its November. Other than October, November is my favorite month of the entire year. I like October because of Halloween (haha) and because the leaves start changing in North Georgia and its absolutely beautiful. I like November because it means family. My entire family gets together (which partially sucks because both sides of my family hate one another) but the general atmosphere is really nice. I like November in Charleston because that's when the weather here starts to change. Its cool and crisp in the morning and still really nice in the afternoon. I love fall weather :)
For this month, I'm going to be partaking in a "30 Day Challenge". Its just answering questions about myself and my life and it seems really interesting so I'm going to do it.
Day1: Your current relationship. If single, discuss how single life is going.
I am not currently involved in a relationship and I'm really okay with that. I sat down a few months ago and made a timeline of when I've been involved with a guy and its been pretty consistent over the past three years. But I've been single since February of this year. Honestly, its the longest I've been single since sophomore year of high school. Kind of weird for me isn't it. But to tell you the truth, I'm completely okay with it! Its allowed me to really focus on building strong and meaningful friendships with people. Sure I've met a few guys and things had started to look like they would turn into something more than friendship, but they never did. But like I said before, I'm completely okay with that. Just in the four months that I've been here for my second year of school, my friendships with my sisters in Phi Mu have grown so much stronger than I ever thought was possible. I've started seriously going to church again. Not that being with a guy before had prevented me from going to church, that's not what I mean at all, but I just felt drawn to worship again. It has definitely put everything in perspective for me and I'm definitely becoming a better person. I've never been a "bad" person, but there have been a lot of things I felt the need to improve on and the past six months or so have been beneficial for that. I'll be honest. There are still nights where I get lonely. There are still nights where all I want to do is curl up with someone and watch a movie and just cuddle. So I grab a pillow and my roommates and a cheesy girl movie and we build forts in the living room of the house I'm living in and have a girls night. What I'm doing works for me, and I couldn't be happier. I'd like to meet a guy at some point. I like relationships (especially when they work, haha). But for now, life's great! :)
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